Now that you say it, I think (from memory) Nick wears headphones doing A Little Soul live and I think he used to always do that with Minnie Timperley as well. Can't remember with the others.
This Is Hardcore and The Trees - all songs with pre-recorded samples/drum machine tracks.
Nick interview is the main NME story today, a couple of snippets of info we may not have heard before (Well imagine it's a film and you're the star...):
Pulp's Nick Banks on his new memoir, the band's future and the "joke" of Britpop The drummer spoke to NME about 'So It Started There: From Punk To Pulp', who'd star in a movie about the band, and if more gigs and new material from the Britpop heroes could be on the horizon
By Andrew Trendell 4th October 2023
Pulp drummer Nick Banks has spoken to NME about lessons learned from his memoir, how Britpop seemed like a "joke" at the time, and what the future may look like for the band.
Released last week, So It Started There: From Punk To Pulp tells of the early times, the good times, the not-so-good times and the WTF times" of the band, as described by frontman Jarvis Cocker - as well as the drummer's early years and life outside of the band.
"It was a bit of a lockdown project; I just thought I'd get on and write my version of events," Banks told NME. "I don't think that there'd really been an insider's view of all of the events. Every person's and every band's story is unique, but I just felt like ours was that little bit more unique so needed to be put down on paper."
Banks joined the Sheffield band in 1986 and played on all of their albums since 1992s 'Separations'. Their first breakthrough came with 1994's 'His 'N' Hers', achieving further success with the seminal and era-defining 1995 follow-up 'Different Class'. However, the band had struggled for attention until the mid-90s, having been writing, touring and plugging away since their formation in 1978. Banks explained how writing the book left him surprised at "just how dogged we had to be during the dark ages".
"When you join a band and you hope to release records and have successful concerts and then nothing happens for years," he said. "It was good to revisit and see how we sticked to it to try and get somewhere.
"It was strange to see so many bands seem to appear out of nowhere and overtake us during those years. Theyd have their names in lights and lauded by everyone as 'the best thing since sliced bread'. It was very frustrating to be ploughing a very similar furrow for years and we couldnt get arrested but it gave us more of a sheer bloodymindedness to keep going until someone took notice."
Due to the bands "doggedness" and Northern spirit, Banks argued that they likely would have carried on regardless of if theyd have broken through to the mainstream with the likes of 'Common People' and 'Babies'.
"Wed come through the dark ages and we were reasonably confident that we were making something that could at least be a minor success," he said. "Even if 'His N Hers' hadnt been a success, I think wed have kept going. Even if it was half the success it was, that was still loads more than wed had before. We would have carried on until we felt that everyone had the chance to see what we were about."
Would a band like Pulp be able to exist and play the long game in todays climate?
"Wed have certainly given it a go," he replied. "Back in the 90s, we were helped by being able to scrape by on unemployment benefits. I dont think today you can do that kind of stuff, and its much harder to make do. Its always been hard for bands to make it, but today its even more difficult."
Pulp became one of the flagship bands of the Britpop era alongside the likes of Oasis, Blur and Suede, but Banks has claimed that it was unfair to attach the label to the band given all that theyd already been through.
"At the time, we thought it was all a bit laughable and crazy to try and lump a band that had been going for 17 years into some kind of new movement it all seemed a bit of a joke to us," he said. "People had tried to shoehorn us into other failed musical categories before, which we found equally comical."
"Sat here with hindsight, it does seem like it did help us because its always better to have more fellow travellers being talked about the same way. But it certainly wasnt taken very seriously by us."
This summer saw Pulp reunite for a string of reunion gigs across the UK and Ireland including a massive show at Londons Finsbury Park, two Sheffield homecoming gigs, a headline set at Latitude, and a finale at Londons Eventim Apollo in Hammersmith.
"Ive always been very positive about playing," said Banks. "Its an honour to play these songs to the people who they mean so much to and it was just a joyous time."
The drummer also described it as "serendipity" that the shows came as hed finished writing his memoir, and that they came at what many called 'the second summer of Britpop at a time when Blur were also on the reunion trail, Noel Gallagher was touring with a new album too and various specials celebrating the genre were on TV and radio.
"There isnt a red telephone that rings and we all say, 'Right, 2023, lets get together and have a run around'," he said. "Theres none of that malarkey, its just everything aligning."
This December will see the band play what is currently their last scheduled gig together at Edinburghs Hogmanay celebrations on New Years Eve however, Banks teased that their could be more activity on the horizon.
"I love new year its much better than Christmas," he said. "Were going to need heaters on stage because its going to be chuffing cold! I dont know if were going to play a special New Years song. Well see what happens, but its going to be very exciting.
"Its the last scheduled thing weve got. Hopefully well have more to announce for next year but I dont know how much I can say at this moment in time, sorry! Its classified. Im looking forward to whatever 2024 may bring."
The summers reunion shows also saw the band perform the unreleased track 'Hymn Of The North'; a song which Cocker had previously written for the 2019 play Light Falls. Despite excitement from fans, Banks said that there "hadnt been any talk" of Pulp recording and releasing their own version.
"Jarvis did it for a play, and I dont really know anything about it," he admitted. "Having said that, sometimes you never know when a call is going to come in about studio time."
Banks also downplayed the chances of the band releasing a new album soon, and that these recent gigs were "more about getting the party back".
"There have certainly been no conversations about new material and to be honest," he said. "Im not sure if any of us have a real appetite for that because you have to put three to five years of your life into it. In terms of writing, recording then touring, it would be really difficult. I cant see it happening myself weve got other things to do."
Aside playing some shows with his other band The Everly Pregnant Brothers (also featuring legendary Sheffield artist Pete McKee), Banks said that the rest of his year would be taken up by Pulps South American gig and using his new lawnmower "before the winter sets in. He added that the gigs along with the release of his book were about "taking stock", and joked that hed be open to the idea of So It Started There being turned into a biopic movie.
"As long as I was played by Jack Dee, that would be fine," he said. "A lot of people say I look like him, and we met a few months ago and had our photo taken side by side. We looked at it and went, 'Nah!'
"I dont know how tall Robert Peston is, but it would be quite funny for him to play Jarvis. Candida [Doyle, keys] would have to be played by someone quite petite Jane Horrocks, perhaps. Mark [Webber, guitarist] would have to be somebody quite quiet, but Ill have to come back to you on that. We could also have a CGI version of Jim Reeves to play Richard Hawley. He was a hired hand to fill out the sound, but hed still have to be there."
Asked if hed had feedback from the rest of the band on his book, Banks replied: "There will be some details that people recognise differently, and thats only human nature and natural. Candida has been enjoying it so far.
"Ive not really had any feedback from Jarvis as of yet, but it has been reported that hes been flicking through it while laying on his sofa which I see as a positive thing as its not yet been commented on with a snort of derision!"
So It Started There: From Punk To Pulp by Nick Banks it out now. Pulp play Edinburghs Hogmanay at West Princes Street Gardens' 'Concert In The Gardens' on December 31. Visit here for tickets and more information.
Well I'm here, bad news is no tables free, good news is that I'm waiting, hawklike, for someone to leave (and no other hawks here as far as i can tell)
An old fella and a young couple have joined me, old fella was fine, asked me very politely, young couple just plonked themselves down, v rude, I would have a word if I wasn't so sober and English.
I'll probably be there closer to quarter to seven. Don't know what time you guys want to leave. In my experience, the queue is long and pointless for Rough Trade events (i.e if it's just a Q&A, vantage point isn't that important like it would be for a live set).
I think Nick's due on at 8? I'd be happy to be at Rough Trade for 7.30/7.40 but if you want to be there earlier, I'll just go straight to the shop.
Interesting: "The summers reunion shows also saw the band perform the unreleased track Hymn Of The North; a song which Cocker had previously written for the 2019 play Light Falls. Despite excitement from fans, Banks said that there hadnt been any talk of Pulp recording and releasing their own version.
Jarvis did it for a play, and I dont really know anything about it, he admitted. Having said that, sometimes you never know when a call is going to come in about studio time.
Banks also downplayed the chances of the band releasing a new album soon, and that these recent gigs were more about getting the party back.
There have certainly been no conversations about new material and to be honest, he said. Im not sure if any of us have a real appetite for that because you have to put three to five years of your life into it. In terms of writing, recording then touring, it would be really difficult. I cant see it happening myself weve got other things to do.
That's a couple of interviews where I've read similar thoughts from Nick about Hymn Of The North and him denying anything on the recording front. I can only hope that if they continue into next year, something does happen.
I'll post pics later, because I can't do it on my phone for some reason.
Very enjoyable night. Loved meeting Weej and Eamonn and we ran into Ester from twitter and Annette.
I got my question answered! There was a bit a mix up because someone thought I was a bloke (you had to be there), but I asked if Pulp planned to do something akin to "Standing at the Sky's Edge". He said something had been mooted a few years back but Covid kind of shut it down, but he did say "We'll see".
Yeah, it was a really enjoyable evening. Good to meet folk off here. It was a late one, we didn't get our books signed by/photos taken with Nick til gone 10 o'clock! Sylvia Patterson and Nick clearly get on very well, they could have chatted for hours with us listening in. Only disappointment was the lack of a roving mic for the crowd questions as you couldn't hear much from the back where we were standing.
Apart from Sarah's Pulp musical-type stage-show question, I think the only other new tidbits were that none of the summer shows were fully professionally filmed even though Hammersmith was meant to be. But Nick recorded some (all?) of the shows with a 360 degree camera from the stage and although he hasn't gone through the footage yet, he'd like to do something with it.
He was also asked for the list of songs rehearsed for the summer that weren't played live and whether they would do anything different in Edinburgh. I think someone up-thread mentioned the other songs (My Legendary Girlfriend, Joyriders, Have You Seen Her Lately, Bad Cover Version are the ones I remember him listing). I shouted out "Help The Aged" but he said, "No, sorry" so there you go! Maybe like Lipgloss it seems to be a bit of a pain in the arse for them to play live? I think at Sheff Arena 2012, the performance of Help The Aged broke-down didn't it? Or was it Party Hard...anyway.... He said they haven't done rehearsals for the Nov/Dec gigs yet but that he was thinking of texting Jarvis earlier yesterday about a song they could try. Trying to recall if there was anything else new said...but that's all that comes to mind. He's so comfortable in his own skin and seemed in his element in this type of setting - I always feel Jarvis is on-edge with signings/talks and I doubt it would come naturally to Mark or Candida either.
I thought Sylvia was really annoying! Yes they clearly got on well but all she did was ask about Jarvis Jarvis Jarvis, hardly anything about him. But Nick was great.
It was Party Hard. Mark's guitar was out of tune for some reason and he and the tech were frantically trying to get it working for a couple of minutes.
On that subject, Mark has experience as somewhat of an orator in his other career as a film curator/festival programmer and has conducted many lectures and interviews over the years. On the Pulp side of things there was an interview with him in Mexico in 2014 (it should still be up on YouTube I think) doing a q and about LDaS. Candida can also be quite eloquent when she gets an opportunity to.
I think when Pulp are interviewed as a whole, Jarvis has a tendancy to dominate the conversation, and indeed the interviewers do tend to direct their question towards him as the lead singer. This was lampshades in an interview at the Brat awards in 1996 which I think is also doing the rounds on YouTube.
Haven't read the book yet but went to the show in Bristol last night and Nick told a pretty unpleasant story about Jarvis that made a really awkward atmosphere!
Some weird responses! I'm happy to recount what Nick said.
Basically when Pulp played in Japan at the height of their popularity, they had this huge (female) fan that would follow them around and stand in front of Jarvis every night. Jarvis deemed her so unattractive that when he'd look into the crowd and see her, he'd get put off. After a while, the band/Jarvis told her that she had to stand at the sound desk.
To be honest, the way Nick recounted the story didn't make him look great either. It's like he expected everyone to laugh but it went silent with some noises of disapproval. The host had to defuse the situation a bit.
Some weird responses! I'm happy to recount what Nick said.
Basically when Pulp played in Japan at the height of their popularity, they had this huge (female) fan that would follow them around and stand in front of Jarvis every night. Jarvis deemed her so unattractive that when he'd look into the crowd and see her, he'd get put off. After a while, the band/Jarvis told her that she had to stand at the sound desk.
To be honest, the way Nick recounted the story didn't make him look great either. It's like he expected everyone to laugh but it went silent with some noises of disapproval. The host had to defuse the situation a bit.
So much for sticking up for the Mis-shapes, eh?
All this stuff I keep reading about, regarding the book, and things kind of making me depressed about Jarvis. Oh well. I know not every band, or person, is perfect, and this stuff is far far less bad than compared to other bands out there, but still. :(
-- Edited by Beta on Wednesday 11th of October 2023 08:47:57 PM
Some weird responses! I'm happy to recount what Nick said.
Basically when Pulp played in Japan at the height of their popularity, they had this huge (female) fan that would follow them around and stand in front of Jarvis every night. Jarvis deemed her so unattractive that when he'd look into the crowd and see her, he'd get put off. After a while, the band/Jarvis told her that she had to stand at the sound desk.
To be honest, the way Nick recounted the story didn't make him look great either. It's like he expected everyone to laugh but it went silent with some noises of disapproval. The host had to defuse the situation a bit.
Umm. Not gonna act shocked/clutch pearls even, but oh dear
Some weird responses! I'm happy to recount what Nick said.
Basically when Pulp played in Japan at the height of their popularity, they had this huge (female) fan that would follow them around and stand in front of Jarvis every night. Jarvis deemed her so unattractive that when he'd look into the crowd and see her, he'd get put off. After a while, the band/Jarvis told her that she had to stand at the sound desk.
To be honest, the way Nick recounted the story didn't make him look great either. It's like he expected everyone to laugh but it went silent with some noises of disapproval. The host had to defuse the situation a bit.
Umm. Not gonna act shocked/clutch pearls even, but oh dear
Agreed, pretty fucking nasty from Jarvis.
SarahAWilson wrote:
TBH I went off Jarvis when the whole "Reigate" thing came out in 1996. Both of the women involved were called Sarah, and I took that personally.
Oh dear, what happened in Reigate?
The story I've heard - the one being referred to upthread - might be familiar. It's the archived interview one of Jarvis's exes - his makeup artist, called Sarah - gave to the News of the World. He two-timed her, basically.
FWIW I don't think it's particularly surprising or new even that Jarvis was a prize prick. (He's our prize prick, I suppose?) I did listen to 'Someone Like the Moon' earlier today, heard it in a pretty different light. Although take tabloids with a pinch of salt etc.
EDIT - oh this IS the Reigate incident, it's her surname!
-- Edited by lipglossed on Thursday 12th of October 2023 03:02:43 AM
Some weird responses! I'm happy to recount what Nick said.
Basically when Pulp played in Japan at the height of their popularity, they had this huge (female) fan that would follow them around and stand in front of Jarvis every night. Jarvis deemed her so unattractive that when he'd look into the crowd and see her, he'd get put off. After a while, the band/Jarvis told her that she had to stand at the sound desk.
To be honest, the way Nick recounted the story didn't make him look great either. It's like he expected everyone to laugh but it went silent with some noises of disapproval. The host had to defuse the situation a bit.
Umm. Not gonna act shocked/clutch pearls even, but oh dear
Agreed, pretty fucking nasty from Jarvis.
SarahAWilson wrote:
TBH I went off Jarvis when the whole "Reigate" thing came out in 1996. Both of the women involved were called Sarah, and I took that personally.
Oh dear, what happened in Reigate?
The story I've heard - the one being referred to upthread - might be familiar. It's the archived interview one of Jarvis's exes - his makeup artist, called Sarah - gave to the News of the World. He two-timed her, basically.
FWIW I don't think it's particularly surprising or new even that Jarvis was a prize prick. (He's our prize prick, I suppose?) I did listen to 'Someone Like the Moon' earlier today, heard it in a pretty different light. Although take tabloids with a pinch of salt etc.
EDIT - oh this IS the Reigate incident, it's her surname!
-- Edited by lipglossed on Thursday 12th of October 2023 03:02:43 AM
I remember seeing this a few yrs ago. I would almost say I'd take any story from or sold to a tabloid with a grain of salt, though. Bet half was exaggerated or made up for $$$.
Oh is it about that?
Yeah he doesn't come out of it particularly well, but you know, this is the man who wrote Acrylic Afternoons and Pencil Skirt and a number of other songs we could list
Oh is it about that? Yeah he doesn't come out of it particularly well, but you know, this is the man who wrote Acrylic Afternoons and Pencil Skirt and a number of other songs we could list
But a person's songs don't always reflect their own experiences...its like being an actor. He'd said he'd typically write from others' perspectives. So, the Sarah thing might definitely be lots of exaggeration involved. He never denied the affair, though, and was very pissed with the newspaper that published it. Forgot his commentary, but some are in interviews I've read.
The one major part that screams exaggerated was the part about him telling her about the solar system and her taking notes, that whole cheesy scene.
-- Edited by Beta on Thursday 12th of October 2023 12:34:38 PM
Tbf he's mentioned it in interviews, I'm inclined to believe Reigate.
Yeah, he's never denied it. Just meant, "bits" of her story might be exaggerated to sound extra worse, to make a story to sell. Otherwise, it'd just have been a boring old story about an affair, so she *might* have added in some exaggerations for extra spice. Was just certain things, though.
It would've been a bit fake, a bit theatrical and performative, if there wasn't actually properly shitty behaviour underpinning the lyrical content of This Is Hardcore. It's more authentic this way, though that's no excuse for cheating obviously.
Very much a news story for the Further Complications enjoyers.
Surely prints? Afterall he did have to go and get a new mower? :) Finished the book yesterday. Great informative read. His section about driving around with the rest of the band in Jarvis's van thing was very vivid when they were looking for spaces to record WLL. Like a school excursion being bussed around to places. What a wonderful sight that would be. Also is that a microwave to the left?
Some weird responses! I'm happy to recount what Nick said.
Basically when Pulp played in Japan at the height of their popularity, they had this huge (female) fan that would follow them around and stand in front of Jarvis every night. Jarvis deemed her so unattractive that when he'd look into the crowd and see her, he'd get put off. After a while, the band/Jarvis told her that she had to stand at the sound desk.
To be honest, the way Nick recounted the story didn't make him look great either. It's like he expected everyone to laugh but it went silent with some noises of disapproval. The host had to defuse the situation a bit.
Are we sure this is true, though? This one particularly bothers me, as myself, grew up kind of a freak, and still feel I kinda am, and the big big thing that held as a foundation of me being a fan was that Pulp WERE seemingly, like me, odd, awkward, vocally supportive of the outcasts, freaks, nerds, the awkward (physically and socially), and was basically what they were rather built upon. so..hearing this actually makes me depressed and sick. Reminds me of shit that was done to me in life and I think many others might feel the same way.
I mean..OK, temper, rude at moments, okay...decided I can get over that...but this one just really bugged me.
Was this fan doing something else perhaps or ? There's gotta be something more behind it, or Nick exaggerated it for the crowd?
What was the full context when he told it?
Might sound dumb, but to me, this kind of changes... a lot.
Now I'm remembering reading somewhere something similar..but was more to it? Was probably something on Acrylic Afternoons archive.
Are we sure this is true, though? This one particularly bothers me, as myself, grew up kind of a freak, and still feel I kinda am, and the big big thing that held as a foundation of me being a fan was that Pulp WERE seemingly, like me, odd, awkward, vocally supportive of the outcasts, freaks, nerds, the awkward (physically and socially), and was basically what they were rather built upon. so..hearing this actually makes me depressed and sick. Reminds me of shit that was done to me in life and I think many others might feel the same way.
But of course there's always more to every story, isn't there?
For a start, Jarvis was rather fond of the white stuff back then, and demonstrated many of the familiar side effects of inhaling a bit too much of it.
It was a different time as well, and being a bit of a dick was rather celebrated behaviour. There was a cache of cool to being a bit of bad boy. The whole of This is Hardcore (the album) is basically an apology for his descent into laddish misbehaviour.
We also know nothing about this person aside that Jarvis found them off-putting. That doesn't mean the person was a freak, nerd, outcast or awkward. Could be this person was a glamour model for all we know. Could have been somebody Jarvis had regrettable liaisons with. Or it could have been a very young person and perhaps Jarvis didnt feel comfortable with the attention. Could be the person was just peacocking too much. Regardless of the reason if this person's presence was causing Jarvis to miss his cues, then it's for the best they were moved.
Stalkers are also a thing when you are famous. And it must be uncomfortable when random strangers seem overly familiar, even if they are just engaging in some harmless idolatry (*notes irony*)
For all we know the person was flattered just to be noticed at all, and possibly honoured to have a special place in the sound booth.
None of this makes it "right". Humans are imperfect, insecure, full of contradictions and prone to selfishness and judgement. Don't put people on pedestals and you won't be disappointed. He's not Jesus, after all.
-- Edited by Simply Fuss Free on Monday 16th of October 2023 03:37:38 PM
Stalkers are also a thing when you are famous. And it must be uncomfortable when random strangers seem overly familiar, even if they are just engaging in some harmless idolatry (*notes irony*)
For all we know the person was flattered just to be noticed at all, and possibly honoured to have a special place in the sound booth.
None of this makes it "right". Humans are imperfect, insecure, full of contradictions and prone to selfishness and judgement. Don't put people on pedestals and you won't be disappointed. He's not Jesus, after all.
-- Edited by Simply Fuss Free on Monday 16th of October 2023 03:37:38 PM
No this is exactly it! I think we live in an age where many demand our artists to be ideologically pure/feel disappointed when their actions don't match projections of who we think they are vs. the flawed, multifaceted humans they actually are. It's interesting to consider the point you've brought up in the parasocial element of being a 'fan' and how that is somewhat dehumanizing to be on the receiving end of. Quite frankly, every bit of goss i've heard about pulp pales in comparison to anything i've ever read in say, Please Kill Me by Legs McNeil.
The fact that Nick thought this anecdote would be hilarious is just testament to the fact that social mores have shifted quite a bit and what would have elicited a chuckle in the past now won't (and rightfully so. it mean lol)
Are we sure this is true, though? This one particularly bothers me, as myself, grew up kind of a freak, and still feel I kinda am, and the big big thing that held as a foundation of me being a fan was that Pulp WERE seemingly, like me, odd, awkward, vocally supportive of the outcasts, freaks, nerds, the awkward (physically and socially), and was basically what they were rather built upon. so..hearing this actually makes me depressed and sick. Reminds me of shit that was done to me in life and I think many others might feel the same way.
But of course there's always more to every story, isn't there?
For a start, Jarvis was rather fond of the white stuff back then, and demonstrated many of the familiar side effects of inhaling a bit too much of it.
It was a different time as well, and being a bit of a dick was rather celebrated behaviour. There was a cache of cool to being a bit of bad boy. The whole of This is Hardcore (the album) is basically an apology for his descent into laddish misbehaviour.
We also know nothing about this person aside that Jarvis found them off-putting. That doesn't mean the person was a freak, nerd, outcast or awkward. Could be this person was a glamour model for all we know. Could have been somebody Jarvis had regrettable liaisons with. Or it could have been a very young person and perhaps Jarvis didnt feel comfortable with the attention. Could be the person was just peacocking too much. Regardless of the reason if this person's presence was causing Jarvis to miss his cues, then it's for the best they were moved.
Stalkers are also a thing when you are famous. And it must be uncomfortable when random strangers seem overly familiar, even if they are just engaging in some harmless idolatry (*notes irony*)
For all we know the person was flattered just to be noticed at all, and possibly honoured to have a special place in the sound booth.
None of this makes it "right". Humans are imperfect, insecure, full of contradictions and prone to selfishness and judgement. Don't put people on pedestals and you won't be disappointed. He's not Jesus, after all.
-- Edited by Simply Fuss Free on Monday 16th of October 2023 03:37:38 PM
Fair points to you and Lapinette. You both made fair points and perspectives and are appreciated.
But please dont think I am one of those super parasocial, super idolizing kind of a fan. Or a stalker.
Not sure if some references like the "irony" part was directed at me. but no. I am just weird about that whole separating the two kind a thing.
-- Edited by Beta on Monday 16th of October 2023 04:20:50 PM
F*** me! A nuanced, considered discussion on the internet! I didn't know it was possible...
To me, it sounds most dickish and disagreeable, and there might be some weird attitudes going on towards plus-sized people. But on the flip-side, people are dicks sometimes. I think Jarvis is a lot more self-aware than a lot of his peers in the music industry, has shown contrition for times he's fucked up, still is reportedly lovely to fans these days (which he doesn't have to be) and more than that he's still out there performing and doing all that for us.
I agree that the parasocial side of fandom is very much there and the internet hasn't exactly helped abate it, not to sound all luddite or anything.
-- Edited by lipglossed on Monday 16th of October 2023 06:00:16 PM
Fair points to you and Lapinette. You both made fair points and perspectives and are appreciated.
But please dont think I am one of those super parasocial, super idolizing kind of a fan. Or a stalker.
Not sure if some references like the "irony" part was directed at me. but no. I am just weird about that whole separating the two kind a thing.
-- Edited by Beta on Monday 16th of October 2023 04:20:50 PM
Just for sake of clarity - when I said "irony noted" I was engaging in self-deprecation. Point being that I am a random stranger, presenting to speak (to a degree) on behalf of someone I don't really know, and thusly being a bit of a hypocrit. So not aimed at anyone else but my own damned self.
Nice to see insightful comments. I won't lie, was sincerely worried I might be ostracized after I submitted the post. So often these daya any attempt at "understanding" goes sideways on the internet. Sometimes I think it's foolish to engage. But you all give me hope.
-- Edited by Simply Fuss Free on Monday 16th of October 2023 07:03:21 PM
Fair points to you and Lapinette. You both made fair points and perspectives and are appreciated.
But please dont think I am one of those super parasocial, super idolizing kind of a fan. Or a stalker.
Not sure if some references like the "irony" part was directed at me. but no. I am just weird about that whole separating the two kind a thing.
-- Edited by Beta on Monday 16th of October 2023 04:20:50 PM
Just for sake of clarity - when I said "irony noted" I was engaging in self-deprecation. Point being that I am a random stranger, presenting to speak (to a degree) on behalf of someone I don't really know, and thusly being a bit of a hypocrit. So not aimed at anyone else but my own damned self.
Nice to see insightful comments. I won't lie, was sincerely worried I might be ostracized after I submitted the post. So often these daya any attempt at "understanding" goes sideways on the internet. Sometimes I think it's foolish to engage. But you all give me hope.
-- Edited by Simply Fuss Free on Monday 16th of October 2023 07:03:21 PM
Oh, no worries!! Wasn't upset at all.
I think these kind of conversations, when civil, are very healthy. And it seems to be a very civil group of folks here.
-- Edited by Beta on Monday 16th of October 2023 07:19:57 PM
Nick did make the point that the woman was putting Jarvis off because he found her unattractive and not for any other reasons. Of course there could be more to it but he was definitely clear on that. It's a nasty story for sure but we are talking about something that happened almost 30 years ago. Nick went on to talk about how annoying and exhausting Jarvis could be back in the day, but he couldn't be more mellow and pleasant than how he currently is. This was all said with affection of course, he clearly loves Jarvis and the entire classic Pulp line up were definitely close friends and not just bandmates.
-- Edited by timahall on Tuesday 17th of October 2023 03:41:13 PM
Are we sure this is true, though? This one particularly bothers me, as myself, grew up kind of a freak, and still feel I kinda am, and the big big thing that held as a foundation of me being a fan was that Pulp WERE seemingly, like me, odd, awkward, vocally supportive of the outcasts, freaks, nerds, the awkward (physically and socially), and was basically what they were rather built upon. so..hearing this actually makes me depressed and sick. Reminds me of shit that was done to me in life and I think many others might feel the same way.
But of course there's always more to every story, isn't there?
For a start, Jarvis was rather fond of the white stuff back then, and demonstrated many of the familiar side effects of inhaling a bit too much of it.
It was a different time as well, and being a bit of a dick was rather celebrated behaviour. There was a cache of cool to being a bit of bad boy. The whole of This is Hardcore (the album) is basically an apology for his descent into laddish misbehaviour.
We also know nothing about this person aside that Jarvis found them off-putting. That doesn't mean the person was a freak, nerd, outcast or awkward. Could be this person was a glamour model for all we know. Could have been somebody Jarvis had regrettable liaisons with. Or it could have been a very young person and perhaps Jarvis didnt feel comfortable with the attention. Could be the person was just peacocking too much. Regardless of the reason if this person's presence was causing Jarvis to miss his cues, then it's for the best they were moved.
Stalkers are also a thing when you are famous. And it must be uncomfortable when random strangers seem overly familiar, even if they are just engaging in some harmless idolatry (*notes irony*)
For all we know the person was flattered just to be noticed at all, and possibly honoured to have a special place in the sound booth.
None of this makes it "right". Humans are imperfect, insecure, full of contradictions and prone to selfishness and judgement. Don't put people on pedestals and you won't be disappointed. He's not Jesus, after all.
-- Edited by Simply Fuss Free on Monday 16th of October 2023 03:37:38 PM
Want to add that again, you guys made very great points and I also probably was over-thinking the whole thing and taking it too seriously. And in the light of things, compared to all other dramatic stuff that goes on with other bands and members, like really ugly stuff, this does all seem insignificant. Humans are humans, but also human flaws and dumbass phases don't make someone evil.
I hope none of my responses has spoiled the book or thread or vibe on here. Apologies if it did. Wasn't my intention.
And yeah, that was around Jarvis's rough phase, and regardless. And he's obviously not a bad person. I want to make that clear that I don't think he is nor do I want others to think he or any member is. They all actually seem like decent folk and on almost every account I have ever read or heard of, he's been nothing but very sweet and cordial, polite to every fan even when being randomly bugged on the street.
Also, apparently each member is delight to work with so I've heard over the years.
-- Edited by Beta on Tuesday 17th of October 2023 03:15:18 PM
Beta, you aren't in any ways 'spoiling the book or thread or vibe'. No, it's a good impulse to interrogate these things, and the way they make us feel; and it's necessary too, at least I think so.
The feeling of being bothered reading that anecdote isn't misplaced. This stuff makes us uncomfortable, and acknowledging that is good.
Anyone else here at the Lincoln event? Short but sweet I thought. Could have listened to his anecdotes all night, and I had a lovely chat about the Brid Spa gig in 95. Plus, his favourite video for a Pulp song was Disco 2000 - because he didnt have to be in it.
-- Edited by liltman on Friday 20th of October 2023 10:35:00 PM
Yeah, that is true actually. But Nick comes across as not bring too phased by the whole thing. Whereas the rest ofnthe group probably were!
Where were you sitting, you should have said Hello - if you'd recognised one of us!
I was feeling shy! I got the last seat, it was at the back in the middle. Annette was standing behind me, she was messaging asking where I was and I happened to turn round half way through and there she is